Re: Paul Betters+Virginia Bailey Abt1871
From what I have found there appears to have been several betters with the same nmes around that time, so I'm not sure we are tracking the same family, but it looks like we could be.
I have a picture of Paul (my great-grandfather)and I have sketchy (most unconfirmed)information on Louis, Joseph and Ida (Paul's daughter).
Also, i think Lillian had a son named Paul. Do you have a married name for her?
To the best of my knowledge all of these people lived in upper NY and western MA.
Does any of this track with what you have?