I tried to see where you found all the detailed information on Patience, but I was unable to find it.I found some entries by name one at a time, but not the family.I think that may be because you have membership to the site?Do you have any information on her parents, Thomas and Jane, like who their parents were?
I found a Thomas marrying a Jane Ingram on 30-12-1833 at St Thomas, Dudley.Do you think those the Patience's parents?In the 1861 census at http://www.1901census.nationalarchives.gov.uk/census.asp?wci=results&searchtype=13http://www.1901census.nationalarchives.gov.uk/census.asp?wci=results&searchtype=13 I found them with different names (Nancy instead of Naomi and Simeon instead of Sampson, no Pathena (or other child born in 1855), and no Patience.I did find Simeon called Sampson in the 1851 census along with older siblings.Here is what I've built so far:
Thomas ca 1812& Jane ?? ca 1817
o Joseph ca 1837 o Mary ca 1837 o Rachel ca 1839 o Elizabeth ca 1840 o Thomas ca 1845 o Edith (Eda) ca 1846 o Luke ca 1849 o Simeon (Sampson?) ca 1851 o Nancy (Naomi?) ca 1853 o Pathena? ca 1855 o Patience 1860-1939 &1882 Thomas Harvat 1861-1916