Susan, thank you for the reply. This is the only Mary I have, Mary Jane, b: 1860, m: Isaac Durham Jan 30, 1881 Lamar Co., Texas. I don't know if she is the one you are looking for. Catherine doesn't ring a bell. Please email me so we may compare notes firstname.lastname@example.org...who knows we may still connect somewhere...Sally I can do some look ups for you as I have ancestry.com if this will help you?