Where are you getting your information? You have "fused" information about three different men named Reynold Brightwell into one.To clarify:
1)My ancestor, Reynold Brightwell was born pre-1735 probably in King William Co VA, lived in Louisa Co VA from 1769 to 1771; lived in Prince Edward Co VA from 1771 until his death in 1806.He married twice: a)"first wife"--I don't know her name but she was the mother of his older children and she died pre-1771 b)Drucilla Allmand (b.pre.1756-living 1810 Prince Edward Co VA)--they married in 1771.
2)Reynold Brightwell (b.pre.1765--d.(1808-1820) married 1785 Henrico Co VA to Sally Evans.
3)Reynold Brightwell (b.pre.1744-d.1781 Granville Co NC) married Mary ________ (b.pre.1749-living 1810 Edgecombe Co SC).