My husband's grandmother was Emma Calcote. Your information is correct except Dardinella Cox Calcote did not fall in love with Emeliano Benavidez. He worked for the Calcote family. He took Dardinella and her two year old baby with him to try to escape. She tried to get away from him and he shot her and the baby and left them lying in a nearby field. Emeliano killed my husband's grandmother, Uncle Henry, Aunt Dardinella and two year old Patsy in cold blood. He was found guilty , and exucuted. There are a lot of stories about the killing.