Thank you so much for your reply. Based on it, I think that Wesley Grimes married to a Susanna Callison is incorrect. The notes had "Callison, Susannah Ediston" married to Abraham Grimes and had Rebecca married to Wesley. Ediston is so close to Edmiston; it seems that the researcher had several things mixed up. I haven't been able to find Wesley Grimes in 1850, or later.
You really helped me clarify Abraham Grimes and Rebecca Callison.