Thank you for posting information on Eliza Capps Harman which adds one more piece to this family puzzle.
I have a transcript of the divorce record of Benjamin and Sally Capps.I would be happy to send it to you by email if you want.
In 1850 there is a 65 year old female living in the household with Thos. J. and Eliza Harmon named Sally Smith.There was a Sally Capps who married a John Smith in August of 1835.The bondsman for this marriage was Joseph Vick. Joseph Vick was at the time married to Dinah Spence/Spencer (1. m ? Capps 2. m. Henry Kennedy 3. m. Joseph Vick).According to family tradition Dinah was the mother of Benjamin Capps.
In 1860 Thomas J. and Eliza Harman are living (Davidson Co.) next door to Alexander and Dora Hite.A. A. Hite married D. F. Harman 12/28/1853 in Davidson Co.Julius C. Hite married Cornelia C. Harman 7/7/1857.