i am writing because today is my birthday. 11/23/1949. i have written to new castle family court, i talked to anita greenfield, she found no record. i have written to the division of social services cyf adotion unit for non identifying information. it turned up nothing. is there anything you can do to help me. i am starting to feel like a ghost. no one in the state of delaware can find any records on my birth mother or me. i am now looking in new york city, but people keep senting me back to delaware. i am going around in circles. where do i turn.i wish i knew who is keeping me a secret all these years. who was anna hilda conaway. what was her life like after she gave me up for adoption. how did she feel. what happened to her family that controled her. what happened to the man i call my birth father. what did his catholic italian family feel about not having a grandchild to love. their past hurt my life and i did not even know it until i found i was adopted. i need them now for medical records. the family, who no longer knew, in heaven, should hold their heads down for keeping me a secret this long. i am not a bad women, i like myself an am not ashamed of being born with out my parents being married. i am glad that today, what happened to me will not happen to other young mothers. there is a movie out called "if these walls could talk" it is about the pain of what to do when a women finds out she is going to have a baby. i am glad times has changed. i also would like to know why me birth mother stayed at st veulah apastolic faith church while she waited to have me. was it a home for unwed mothers.can you help me find anna hilda conaway maiden name.