There is no history of a BARBARA MCDONALD in genforum so it's likely that this is the first post.
If anybody (with good manners) walked into an in-person discussion group do you think that they would likely sit a while to get a sense of what the local "protocol is?
I wonder what the analogous behavior might be on-line? Perhaps to read a bunch of post?
And perhaps if reading a bunch of posts, find out that TYPING IN UPPER CASE is a no no? What do you think?
And perhaps learn that when asking a question it is useful to supply as much info as possible? So that it isn't necessary to ask about Lolita ...
Where does/did she live North of the Equator? South of the Equator? East of the Atlantic? West of the Atlantic? East of the Mississippi? West of the Mississippi? North of the Mason/Dixon line? South of the Mason/Dixon line?