I haven't been on this site for quite a while and I just happened on this message. Robert was the first cousin of my father, Walter A. Fenstermacher. Both were M.D.s Robert and his family came to visit us when I was young, maybe about 12 yrs. old. I remember that Jay was about my age. We lived in Rochester, NY. My dad passed in 1990 at the age of 87. It's interesting that both of his children live in California--so do I (L.A. area.) Please convey my regards to his wife Edith.