You and I are VERY distant cousins (8th or 9th ?) going back to our common ancestor Abraham Hatfield.
If you have the stamina and don't fall asleep easily, you should go to the HATFIELD forum and on the upper right side of the opening page write in the posting number 910 and read that posting of mine from 1999.
At the bottom of my letter 910 are replies from all the people (including you) who answered me. You should be able to find most if not all of the wives of the various Hatfield men in the early generations.