More info on my Grays from "The Aspinwall Genealogy" compiled by Algernon Alkin Aspinwall, Washuington, DC.
l.Peter Aspinwald b 1612 in Toxeth, England
2.Eleazer Aspinwall b 9Oct1673
3.Aaron Aspinwall b 9June 1711
4.""Jr b 6Oct1743
6.AMELIA Aspinwall bm Abiathur Gray; died c.1865 in Athens, Ohio as third wife of Cornelius Maydole
Abiathur and Amelia were living in Howard, NY in the 1850 census BUT apart.His 1812 pension was for $38 a month which was high so his disability must have been major.