Re: Haithcoat, St Louis Mo.
I think I know your wife's father. My father was his 2nd cousin, her grandfather
Baker Haithcoat's first cousin. Her grandmother's name was Hazel, I think.My grandmother was Zealie (Haithcoat) Trigg.They were all from the New Madrid, Mo. area.
Does your wife remember her? I do have some Haithcoat genealogy, if this is the family your looking for. Let me know.