Looking for decendants of Nathaniel Hildreth & Experience Hildreth

There was a post on this topic several years ago. Now I need to contact you family members. I am the gggranddaughter of Experience Hildreth Spahr. I am trying to connect her to her father, Nathaniel Hildreth, and then it will go on to her grandfather, Hosea Hildreth, who was a patriot in the Revolutionary War. I need proof that he was her father. This is all so that I can join the DAR through my Hildreth line. I hope some of you are still here!