Re: please help info on dellie mae holder!!
Well from what I see online I believe the Dellia Ramsey that died April 1919 is the Dellie you are looking for. Also I believe from the 1920 census taken in January, your grandmother Carrie Ramsey is listed as "granddaughter" in household of Randle Ramsey with her widowed father Logan also listed as "son". Carrie is recorded as being 1 yr 4 mos old,(1 4/12) making her birth actually in Oct 1918 not 1919. Also since the father Jess was informant and she had Brights Disease (Kidneys) it could be Dellie went to live with her Lowe parents to recover 3 days after your grandmother's birth. Carrie's statements about her mother death is all second hand, she had to have been told the story and second hand information is always highly suspect.
I believe Dellie was married to a Holder before Ramsey because just after I composed the above paragraph I decided to look for and found found Jesse and Mary Lowe in 1920 Hamilton County census. They have in their household a 6 year old GRANDDAUGHTER named MARY HOLDER, age 6 (1914).
Also Dellie was buried in Hamilton TN and they had flooding by a dam built in 1940 or so the cemetery may or may not have been moved. Check with TVA or the Government agency that built the dam.