Re: John Ings m. to Sarah Wickham
What I have:
John Ings Daysh , his wife Eliza & their 6 children arrived in NZ Nov 1841. John (junior) was a year old. His date of birth was 1 Nov 1840 at Wickham Hampshire England. 8 more children followed after arriving in NZ.
John Ings Daysh (senior) was born in 1805 at Wickham. John Ings & Eliza Clarke were married at St Nicholas Church, Wickham in 1832.
While this does not tie in with what you have, it was worth a try!!