Bill: It's great to learn you're Ralph's son. Yes, Neil does remember meeting you. In other posts, I doubt anyone knew Carrie's maiden name. I did some guessing, some detective work and was lucky enough to meet someone from Goldboro who helped me out.
I tried to contact you via EMail today but was told the address had errors. I'd like to know if you have any idea where Irving and his second wife, Lola, were married. I can't find her parents and the marriage record would be a big help.