Re: ALFRED, possibly ALFORD, MEDLIN b 1804 NC
The "Wake County Marriage Bonds" list three marriages for an Alfred Medlin.
It would appear that the one most likely to be your Hicksey would be
Medlin, Alfred married Axeymina Medlin 29 July 1829
Bondsman Noah Rhodes and witness B.S. King.
It appears that Alfred Medlin had a previous marriage.
Medlin, Alfred x married Mary Kiff 22 Dec. 1825
Bondsman Willie (x) House, witness B.S. King
Around that same time there was a marriage for a
Medlin, Hartwell (Crabtree Distric on later census) married Elizabeth Acock 13 Apr. 1830, again with the same Bondsman Noah Rhods and witness B.S. King
Hartwell Medlin appears to be the son of Cader Medlin Sr, and the brother of Cader Medlin Jr.Perhaps these clues may help however, Cader Medlin Sr. had many sons and there could be many combinations of relationships here as it is a possibility that Axeymina/Hicksey is a cousin or widow of another Medlin.
Wake County Marriage Bonds (see Family Search web page) has over 45 Medlin marriages on record.