James Dalton-Murray, Londo/Kuala Lumpar

I am searching for information regarding Dora Carter(sometimes known as Denise Carter) who marriedJames Dalton-Murray and went to Kuala Lumpar during WW2. James was a senior officer there and married Dora in Kuala Lumpar. I understand they had 2 children who would be around 60 now.
My reason for the search is that Dora was a bridesmaid at my mothers wedding in 1941 and she would like to know what has happened to Dora.