Not sure if I can make a connection with you but I will try!I have hit a roadblock with the Oades family but I think I might be able to link to your John Oades!
Albert L. Kenyon married Elizabeth J. Rozell Roselle Rozelle (b. 1842 Sackets Harbor d. 1903 Clayton). Elizabeth's parents were George Rozell and Jean S./Jane S. Oades (b. 7-31-1822 Sackets Harbor d. 1898 Clayton). In "Clayton Deaths" it said that John Oades and Lucy Oades were Jane S. Oades Rozelles parents.
Could this be the same John and Lucy Oades?If so, that would make them my 4th Great Grandparents!Whoo hoo! lol... If you are able to make a connection, it would be appreciated.
Another note: I noticed you had posted something on another site about a "Oades Kenyon".I have a John Oades Kenyon in my family tree born in Clayton 1881.Is this the same person?