Re: Lilly/Lila Pallister - North yorkshire
Well, I've had a look in my database, and there may be some contenders for Lilla's siblings in the Leeds area, but it depends on whether some or all of those siblings were older than she. I have all Palliser births up to about 1990, but my Pallisters only go up to 1880, unfortunately, which I may try and rectify soon.
There were a bunch of Pallisters, including a George, in Tadcaster in the 1850s, so I should imagine you might link to them.
If you could get hold of Lilly's death cert (she may have been Lilla, Lilly, Lily or Lilian, etc), this would give her approximate age, and that would help to pinpoint her.