questions about John Redden and sidney sevier redden

I have seen on ancestry they had a son named james, and i have seen for this son named james, a son named john l and i have also seen in trees sons named john l and a son named lewis... i have a john lewis redden born in tn, we are unsure of the date of his birth between 1803 (on his tombstone) and 1815 (according to all docs) he married rachel searcy in missouri, there first child elizabeth parilee redden was born in 1841 in hickman county tn, that is the same year sidney redden died in hickman county, ... there are alot of reasons to believe we belong to this family of reddens and i am looking for anyone that can help our redden family thru the years has been known to be in oklahoma at the indian res picking cotton, in arkansas, they also have familiar names tied in like jett, goad... that was another thing sidney seveirs mother was jonnah goad..in the gasconde county missouri families that are all married in we find a ruth goad up in the tree same goad family as sidney seveirs mom... we started looking at this redden family again because rachel searcy was born in north carolina and we were stuck on her too we believe that her parents might be bennet searcy and nancy cross but nancy cross died to early according to some to be their mother but maybe mary polly wendall dont know , but when we looked up bennet searcy it led us right to davidson counties henry counties and hickman counties please someone help my email address is [email protected] thank you very much Angie