Re: Jonathan m. Esther - Ridgefield,CT 1733
According to the book Grays of Ulster County, by Donald C. Donohue (pub. 1995), a Mary ROCKWELL married Benoni GRAY of Southeast, NY.They had 8 children, including Thaddeus Gray, b. 6 Apr. 1766, and Jessie Gray, b. 6 June 1778.Mary (Rockwell) Gray died 27 Apr. 1810, aged 68 years, according her headstone at Greenfield Methodist Burying Grounds at Wawarsing, Ulster Co., NY (Poucher and Terwilliger, Old Gravestones of Ulster Co., NY).
Mary's ancestry is in another posting responding to your other query.