I have not heard from my father in 17 years. Less than a month before my mother passed away, she told me I had an older brother. She either didnt know his name, or did not tell me his name. My brother would be approximately 42. She found out on her wedding night from my father. My father goes by the name "Tom". He worked at Yellow Freight Lines as a Dock Supervisor (18 years ago) in the Victorville, California area. He was living in a small trailer off a long dirt road with no electricity, running water, phone, etc. He had a PO Box in Phelan, but I cannot get any info from them even with my birth cert. Last I knew he was married to my step mother Barbara. She trained horses in the Corona/Norco area. If you have any info, please contact me. I have 3 kids that would like to meet their grandfather, as would both of my sisters children as well.