Hello Jane, My name is Margaret Chisholm. I am the granddaughter of Louisa Shillabeer who was the sister of Richard Thomas Shillabeer - the father of Joseph (b.1914), Mabel (b. 1915), Richard (b. 1916), Charles (b.1918), Arthur (b. 1920), Henry (b. 1923), Cecil (b. & d. 1925), Isaac (b. 1925 d. 1928) and Gwendoline (b. 1927). So I believe you are my second cousin once removed. I'm in contact by email with grandchildren of some of Richard's sons and would be very interested to share information. Margaret.