Since you have 3 diffrent Shoebridge trees, I am hoping one of them might be the line I am looking for.
I have an Olive and Arthur Shoebridge born in Tonbridge, Kent.They were brother and sister (about 2-3 years difference - born 1865-1871) and I believe they had a number of other siblings.Their parents were Thomas and Emily/Emma/Amy (not sure of the maiden name but could be Twort or Bubery)
Olive married a Frederick Victor Elphick in about 1887/88 and had a daughter (born 1888) by the name of Ethel.They also had a daughter, Madeline Lily born December 1890
Frederick married a Louise Edith Coussens in about 1895 and they had a son, Frederick, and Lily was still with them at that time, but Ethel is no where around.
On the 1891 census, Arthur was living with Olive and Frederick
Any assistance you can shed on these illusive people would be great