I have Thomas Stapley (died 1861 in Hastings). His son Henry (b c 1840) married Harriet Cogger in 1863. They had 6 children (John Ellen William George Leonard and Henry) and lived in Sandhurst, Kent c 1860-1885. Henry married Melina Bridge in 1889 and moved to Woolwich. Henry and Melina are my great grandparents. Do you recognise any of these people?