Hi Brian - saw your message this morning.My friend has not done any family research whatsoever, but i am trying to convince her !
Anyway, I think we have the same Mary STREATFIELD and will update my records with what you have given.
In return, I have Mary STREATFIELD marrying Benjamin FILLERY in Hartfield in 1852.The only child I have with them is Walter FILLERY born in 1856.He goes on to marry a Mary GILES on 13th May 1882 (probably in Hartfield).
If you want to know more about the FILLERY line, let me know - I have it going back to the 1500s, thanks to a guy in Australia who has spent the last 30 years researching them!!