Holder Cemetery record has Thomas Whitfield born 25 Aug 1869 Died 16 Sep 1870. Now the 1870 census list Thomas as 10 year old Living with Nancy Whitfield. There is a web site on rootweb.com, you might want to look at. Worldcorrect & type in Josiah Whitfield name.
Josiah Whitfield inlisted in the CSA on 1 Mar 1862, in Co. A (Tishomingo Riflemen), 2 Reg't Mississippi Volunters at Jacinto, MS. Died at Lynchburg, VA 20 Jan 1863 of Small Pox.