William Parker [actually born in Charleston, NH] and Wealthy Lamkin [Stratford, NH] were my 4G-Grandparents.They married in Hatley, Stanstead County, Quebec, Canada, and had lived in East Otto, Cattaraugus County, New York prior to going to Illinois.
If Daniel Wiley was born in New York, as indicated on the census, it is most likely he was born in Cattaraugus County.
By the time of the 1900 Census, Roxana was living with her son George:
1900 Census Rockford, Winnebago County, IL Series: T623Roll: 355Page: 237
Wiley, George L. /Head/Mar 1864/WI/NY/Canada -------, Alice M. /Wife/Dec 1864/IL/NJ/MD -------, Mabel /Daughter /Dec 1889/NE/WI/IL -------, Roxana M. /Mother/Aug 1830/Canada/NH/VT Wertz, Mary /Boarder/Jan 1880/IL/IL/MD
I do not have any information on Wilbur Wiley or his family – sorry!